manners

Do's and Don'ts in the UK

As we all know, no matter where you are in the world there are certain accepted codes of behaviour and etiquette - and let's face it, nobody likes to make a social gaffe - particularly if it involves an important business deal or a meeting with future in-laws.

Do...

• stand in line, form orderly queues and wait patiently for your turn to come in shops; at bus stops, cash machines or anywhere else where a number of people are waiting for the same service. Unlike some other Europeans, the English (and the British in general) become enraged by 'queue jumpers', and you may well see the English reserve crack if you attempt to push in front of others who have been waiting longer than yourself.
• shake a person's right hand with your own right hand when you are first introduced.
• say "excuse me" if someone is blocking your way and you would like them to move.
• cover your mouth with your hand when yawning or coughing.
• pay for drinks as you order them in pubs and other types of bars.
• say "please" and "thank you" whenever appropriate.

Don't...

• ask personal or intimate questions, such as: "How much money do you earn?" "Why aren't you married?" or "What is your age?" The English are extremely private people and this type of questioning, however well-meant, is unlikely to endear you to your hosts.
• speak when your mouth is full of food.
• greet people with a kiss when you have never met them before (this type of behaviour is normally reserved for close friends and relatives).
• discuss politics or religion! Whilst not exactly taboo subjects, the English regard their political and religious beliefs as their own business - it really is far safer to avoid such talk, if not completely, then at least until you know your hosts a little better.

It is acceptable to...

• use your fingers when eating a piece of chicken.
• blow your nose in public (providing you use a tissue or handkerchief).
• discuss the following with somebody you have recently met: English weather conditions; television programmes; vacations (the English call them 'holidays'); or indeed, any type of innocuous and non-personal topic.